Piccolo wrote:Also, I assume that relations between men and women would be more equal and there would be less social alienation under a socialist economic system. Was romance better in the East? I would assume that it would be under a less commercial system where love is not a commodity.
It's a difficult question to judge, since there is no statistical 'relationship happiness' indicator. On the one hand I believe you are correct -the lack of personal selfish interest as a societal principle probably meant that there was less pressure (especially for men) to be well off when forming relationships, especially after high school/higher education. On the other hand couples did suffer from certain material deprivations, chief among them the lack of privacy during the courting and early marriage periods due to housing shortages. While this didn't prevent the expression of sexuality, it certainly stifled it to an extent, for obvious reasons.
Loz wrote:Social conservationism is reactionary. For all the talk about the rights of women the USSR ( and i'm talking about Russia, not those Islamic Central Asian countries ) was still a very conservative, traditional and patriarchal society. Take that as you will but saying that is neither improper nor a waste of time, it's just another example of how the USSR failed at socialism.
Social conservativism existed (and exists) for reasons other than male commodification of women. The revolutionary anti-conservative concept of free love for instance can be seen as a failure in the sense that it has not led to increased happiness, especially among women, and on the contrary has led to new and ugly social problems and forms of emotional and psychological distress not experienced before. But that's my personal opinion.
I won't deny that the USSR maintained elements of patriarchal society, some of them socially justifiable (i.e. that the commander in chief of the armed forces shouldbe a man) and others not (i.e. that women who work end up with 'double duty' as a result of social patriarchy continuing to exist despite legislated equality). However, I say this is irrelevant because if there was a socialist revolution in the Netherlands or in Japan tomorrow, it would not turn into a Soviet-style system, especially in the socio-cultural sphere. Soviet forms of political economic organization are one thing, and are justifiably discussed, analyzed, and critiqued; social and cultural relations are something else completely, and depend upon the culture and traditions of each individual country. As the differences in sexual norms between the USSR and East Germany show, there is no one-size-fits-all model of the correct 'socialist' position on social relations.